Wednesday, November 2, 2011

HUMBLED BY AFRICA

Every year, my school has MYSA days. MYSA stands for Mathare Youth Sports Association. The organization describes itself this way:

MYSA is a selfhelp youth programme linking sports with environmental cleanups, AIDS prevention, Leadership training and other community sevice activities involving approximatey 20,000 young people. Started in 1987 as a small selfhelp project to organize sports and environmental cleanups within Mathare slums in Nairobi, the organization has grown from a small youth to renowned youth serving organization that promotes sports for development...

Their motto is: You do nothing, we do nothing. You do something, we do something.

The idea is that these kids aren’t just supposed to receive support. They have to do something to get something. The more they do, or the more they clean and such – the more points they can collect. Some of the kids with the most points get to come visit Norway and play in the Norway Cup. Every year these kids visit our school prior to a “work day” where we, the students, get off from school to work in order to raise money for them. On these two-day visits they have an entertainment day and a “mathare safari” day. On the entertainment day, the 3rd graders (my grade this year) work with the kids from Kenya (The Mathare slum, which also is one of the worst slums in Africa, is in Kenya) and make up a show for the rest of the school. In the end of this performance the Kenyans perform African dances for us and you can see in the video below.

These kids are absolutely wondeful and I feel like such a self-centered, egoistic and spoiled kid with no ideas about the real pleasures of life when I see them and how they are. They have huge smiles on their faces, they’re constantly dancing or hugging each other. They love to hold hands and are so enthusiastic about things. When they presented themselves, they told us about what they liked to do. They loved to dance, to sing, to read, to play soccer. Had you asked a group of Norwegian teens, they would have said they like to play video games, hang out with friends, party, watch tv-shows, blog……

I’m not saying all teens are like this of course. I for one love to read, but I find myself on the computer more often than with my nose in a book. One of the things that I noticed and that touched me the most was that these kids did not seem shy at all. When the Norwegian kids were up performing, they were sort of shy but tried to perform. The Kenyans were eagerly trying to engage the audience, they performed with passion and fire in their eyes. They seemed to be having a wonderful time! They were not shy at all! I think that people tend to be shy because of the fear of being judged, but these guys didn’t even seem to care or know about judgement. They are innocent, and I admire and envy them that.

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My history class also recently watched a movie called Hotel Rwanda. It’s based on a true story of the Rwanda Genocide. The movie really touched me and made me sort of, ashamed perhaps. I know that there is no reason for me to think that way honestly, I know I never did anything to Africans or anyone else for that matter. However, I somehow feel ashamed and/or guilty that partly given my skin color I have a good life. I have more than I need, my family is never in danger, we are respected by others in society, I live in a good country, I never starve, I sleep in a soft bed, I just have it so good and I don’t even appreciate it. In one part of the movie, all the “whites” were transported out to safety while the Rwandans had to stay and take care of themselves. Why does skin color ever have to matter? Who had the right to decide that one color was better than the other? Of course these are just rhetorical questions, and chances are they will never be answered. It just bothers me and where better to express feelings than on a blog? I recommend you watch Hotel Rwanda if you haven’t already. It makes you think.

-S.

Sunday, October 30, 2011

ADDICTED TO SUSHI

After I tried the food at Brumunddal Sushi, I want to eat there all the time. I’m cheating however, I still haven’t tried SUSHI. By this I mean that the only raw fish I’ve tried is the salmon ones. My favorite “sushi” so far is the Spicy Tempura Maki, which for those uneducated about sushi is fried scampi, avocado, chillimayo and rice rolled in nori. I’m addicted to it and I would buy it every day if I could. However, I’m poor and I can’t…

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Now what I would like to know is: What is your favorite type of sushi and why? I’m thinking about trying more so I’d like to have a little idea about what is good and what is not.

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For the record, I know I suck as a blogger and I disappear alot. I hope you guys still might check by my blog every now and then.

S.

Friday, October 14, 2011

ROME– a love story

I fell in love this past week… with Rome. Such a beautiful city, such friendly and outgoing people, the fooood… Ah, I simply love it and going home almost brought a tear to my eye. Things were just so charming in an italian style.

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Our apartment was on Via del Moro, one of the most popular streets in the Trastevere. There was constantly people walking outside our charming windows, some were singing in Italian, some were tourists…

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To sum it up short, our apartment was in the perfect location! If anything, my parents might say they wished they had a bedroom. One of the beds was right by the windows and considering the “Bakery” right below our apartment also seemed to be one of the most popular bars in town, it got noisy at night..

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It still felt as if we were in the heart of Rome, where everything happened and everyone wanted to be! Right around on the otherside of our block was the small Piazza di Santa Maria where people were entertaining almost every night! Romans have such an outgoing zest about them!

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There was another group the same night the photo above was taken that were just dancing to a beat, but they were so lively that they got the entire crowd to dance along! I loved it!

Then, there was the food.. Come on.. who doesn’t love italian food?

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I’m a carbaholic, so I enjoyed myself (and so did those few extra pounds that joined me after dinner).

One of the best experiences was one of our first evenings when me and my boyfriend were going to go out for a little evening stroll. I ended up telling him there was something special I wanted to show him and we ended up running up and down streets trying to find our way. The entire time, I was the only one knowing where we were going without actually knowing where to go. Eventually though, after some detours, we reached the Colosseum which was lit up for the night. Totally a redcommendation for anyone looking for a little adrenaline rushing experience on an unplanned event.

Then of course there was the sights, monuments and historical places.. We got a guided tour of the Colosseum and the Palantine Hill before we also checked out the Roman forum. All amazing places, totally worth it to see – but get a guide, helps you know a little more about what you’re looking at!

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I think the monument that impressed me the most was the Trevi fountain. It was sooo much bigger than I expected! And in hopes of returning to Rome, I threw a coin in the fountain..

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One thing you might not think to do but you totally should do is visit the top of the Musei Capitolini. It will make you feel like this…

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when you’re standing there looking over this…

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I could go on and on forever because I loved all of it. Adjusting to the crazy traffic in Rome, the super friendly service at restaurants, the beautiful chocolate shop owner who was 90 but looked 60 (she said because of the chocolate), the cobblestone roads, the music in the streets, the gelato, sitting in the sun drinking white wine and simply experiencing Rome in one of the best times possible! I loved it, and I am going back one day!

To see the rest of the pictures from my trip you can go to facebook and like my page: http://www.facebook.com/pages/The-Beara-Necessities/259529040750612?sk=wall

Here I will be giving notice of when new posts are up and posting some of the pictures that just can’t fit into my posts!

Hope you all had a great week and that you’re ready for some new posts!

-S.

Monday, October 3, 2011

BUSY BEE

I am SO sorry for ditching you all after all that wonderful support and advice! Seriously, it made me so happy to see you all come with so much advice for this little lost soul. Just ask my mom, I pretty much giggled like a 9 year old girl every time I got a new email giving me notice that there was a new comment on my blog. Thank all of you!

I really have been busy unfortunately, and this isn’t a comeback but rather a drop-by. In the past week I had tests, big assignments and work keeping me busy. Then, come weekend I finally got to spend time with my boyfriend and we went with my family to look at some puppies (our family is going to get one in a few weeks). They were SO adorable! Just see for yourself:

Also, earlier in the week the russ had our first “fun-day” (originally called a Terror-day, but that changed after this summer) where we mess around with 1st graders (1st graders for us is like Juniors in high school – the new guys).

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Most 1st graders take it, knowing that they will get their chance in two years. The point isn’t to be mean, but rather mess around and prank with the new kids. We’ve aaaall been through it, even yours truly:

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The only problem the school has had with this really is that some (most) russ use permanent markers. I however was so nice that I bought a whiteboard marker. Yeah, yeah. I know I just put on a big fat halo! ;)

Then on Friday we had our very first theme day!! It was ROCK AND ROLL baby!

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It was extremely fun, and later that night followed a Rock and Roll party that was very fun! All in all a very good Russ kick off!

Now as I said, this wasn’t a comeback. I have a test + work tomorrow and a test + work on Wednesday, and then – ROME! I’m going to bring my computer to Rome, so I might be able to sneak in a post or two. But I’ll remember to take tons of pictures for you guys! Thanks again for all the support on my last post! You guys are my joy in blogging!

-S.

Monday, September 26, 2011

BAD ASS BUSINESS WOMAN

You might recall my previous post about my thoughts about perhaps becoming a teacher. However, while talking to my parents the other day they made some good points. The first thing to think about is the basic questions:

How long an education do I want to take? What kind of salary do I want to end up with? What goals do I have for my career future? And so on…

I already know the answer to these. I want a long and decent education, at least a masters if not more. I want to have an above average salary (who doesn’t right?) and I want to have a job where I can work my way up. I’ve always been a hard-working, decent kid who strives to excell in anything I put my mind to. I’ve been called a nerd and a geek, I spend more time doing homework than being social and I usually do good in whatever I try to complete. I love doing good and impressing people, I’m a sucker for praise and I’m content with myself when others are proud of me. I realized now that I’m a dog. Cool, huh?

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So I started to consider some kind of business career. Perhaps marketing or some kind of management. So I was discussing this career choice with my boyfriend yesterday and he made a comment arguing that you have to be “mean” to be good in business. He meant I was too nice, that I had too many manners and that in order to be a good business woman I had to be tough and in some ways mean. This makes sense, but at the same time I believe that you can still be nice, as long as your tough and business oriented. I believe you can think business and not make business personal, without being a cold and mean business woman. However, I’m not a business woman and I do not know anyone who is. So what do I know?

Do you think you have to be cold and hard in order to do good in business? Why/why not?

S.

Friday, September 23, 2011

PLAYTIME

Soo, I’ve been playing around with my new little friend Lucy. I brought her to school today and tried taking some “artistic” photos…

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What do you think? Then after a long, full day at school – I went to work. Thankfully it was the LAST day this week. My original plan was to go visit my boyfriend, because finally – after one LOOONG year – he’s done in the army! But there were complications so he won’t be home until tomorrow morning. Meaning I went home after work. Here’s some of the scenery from the drive home this evening…

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Have a great weekend everybody!

-S.

Wednesday, September 21, 2011

MY NEW BABY

Soo, I forgot to mention I have a new, pretty little baby. I actually just got her today, and I didn’t even know I was getting her until recently. I’m naming her Lucy, she’s black and has one big eye. I love her !

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We’ve only known each other for a couple of hours, but I can already tell we’re going to be GREAT friends.

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I named her Lucy because I keep hearing about people naming things that are precious to them, and she’s already precious to me. I can’t wait to take tons of pictures and share them with you all! Part of the reason I got her now, was because my current camera (I love her too) is a smaller digital camera that does GREAT portraits but not that good landscape and other images. So I was thinking of how much I want to remember my first trip to Rome and take many pictures, well Lucy will help me with this. 15 days!!!

By the way, I’m sorry for my silence on the blog this week. I’ve worked every evening after school, and I’ve done homework after work. So it’s not that easy to slip in some blogging here and there. But I’m trying! I’ll be back soon!

-S.